Author Steven Redhead (Malaga, Southern Spain)

Life Is A Cocktail: Reality With A Dash Of Imagination by Steven Redhead

Life really is quite like a cocktail, each person adds the various component parts, then mixes them up to get their known reality. Ingredients like imagination, dreams, wishes, hopes, aspirations, ideas, et cetera can be included as seen fit; any combination of things can be added to the melting pot as decided, then just mix it all up to see how things turn out.

“Life Is A Cocktail” covers different situations that tend to occur in life; with an insight for how to think about and deal with what evolves. When looking for answers or inspiration external stimuli can influence an intuitive response that becomes the seeds for a potential solution. That is the intention of ‘Life Is A Cocktail’, that inspirational benefits will evolve from reading sections of the book that are relevant to what is being experienced.

Much like a jigsaw puzzle, the individual elements required for success need to be collected in the right order to form the desired result. The combination of these various factors in the form of what you seek and pursue, the things you learn, the places you live and visit, what you acquire, all the individual parts that constitute your life are the components of your life’s cocktail. You decide the individual contents, how they are combined perfectly or in dissonance, compatible or otherwise.

Life is an experiment of learning to create your desires within your known reality, perfecting this ability is paramount for achieving a satisfactory life of purpose. Not wasting or allowing chances, potential, or opportunities to go unaddressed is the way to achieving your true heart’s desires. What you attract then capture to enliven your life to give meaning to desires is imperative and will make all the difference.

Life really is about practicing creation; creating wonderful memories, creating wonder for others, creating joy and peace. The point of all this, as with anything, is the value that is created and remains at the end of the day, basically the extent and quality of the memories created.

Genre: Inspirational Self Improvement



Life Is Simply A Game by Steven Redhead

Life is indeed a game that we all play to pass time; simply a series of days strung together, made up of how you planned or decided to spend the moments. Like any game how well it is played or whether life’s circumstances are interpreted accurately, then used to the best advantage, makes losers and winners to varying degrees.

Senseless insanity is alive and well within the world. The world is awash with unruly forces, that if not intent upon harming you do desire to become a destabilizing force, either temporarily or over the long term. We are all participants in a charade, how life evolves and turns out all depend on how well the game is played.

It is not wise or ideal to treat life like a game of chance, a random roll of the dice that can determine unpredictable outcomes. The cost of success is the careful application of well thought out concepts and ideas.

Like any game preparation is critical; understanding the rules, knowing how to manipulate the dynamics at play efficiently to ones own advantage, understanding the intricacies of the rules and how to capitalize upon or create opportunities, pursuing whatever circumstances are present to maximize whatever potential exists to the best advantage.

The potential opportunities in life are only limited by the inability to firstly comprehend them and secondly to fully utilize personal abilities to maximize the potential that is available. Don’t wait for special times to evolve, rather create them in accordance with your true desires to experience what you wish to make real.

Much like any game, the game of life has things that can be obtained, or things that can be lost. How the game is played, the value of the stakes, the opposing factions all come to dictate an outcome, be that favorable or lacking any resemblance of being lucky. A life lived based upon any reliance on luck or fate being favorable is tempting only to the over optimistic, or those extremely lucky ones or who were fortunate in the past and believe that good fortune will continue in the future.

While it takes resources to control the world, the control of your own specific world environment is really within your potential to achieve. How you choose to control your world, as well as to what extent your desires are put into action, determine whether your life will meet your wishes or not. The amount of thought and energy you exhort, the persistence of that effort, all comes to determine whether and to what degree what you want is what you actually get.

In life you may win or loose at times, it’s basically just like playing a game; the right mentality is chancing the wheel of life by trusting and ensuring you will win just the same.

Find out more by reading the book Life Is Simply A Game.

Genre: Inspirational Self Improvement



The Solution: Keys To Life by Steven Redhead

Are you living the life that you always imagined, the life that you really desire? Can you realize your dreams, or are they gradually slipping away from you?

Life is indeed a wondrous journey, but modern living has caused many to loose their way, drifting far from their intended life. Start to create the life you live as it was originally intended to be lived, free of the chains created by modern society, a life built upon joy and bliss.

Stop surrendering the decisions controlling your life by allowing others to interfere with your future, you have the right to make all the choices concerning how you experience your life. Start living the life that you deserve by taking back control over your destiny.

Direct your desires towards creating a life that you truly deserve, realizing your dreams, creating the things that you want, gaining the know-how into what life is really all about.

When planning a holiday most people take care of all the details in advance, booking flights, arranging transport, hotel accommodation, tour guides, et cetera. Yet in life, the greatest journey that everyone will ever make, most people don’t prepare or plan their life course as well as they should; they don’t work to create a life of joy, peace, health and wealth.

Develop the seeds for thought that will be the basis to create a new and richer life for yourself. Richness is not financial, but rather a life of bliss, something money can’t buy.

Take care of every detail of your life, leaving no stone unturned, never just scratch the surface of anything you undertake, do it fully, until it is entirely completed, this is the only way to avoid regrets.

Life was never meant to be difficult, it was meant to be a wondrous adventure, that ideal is traded for whatever exists because of complacency when whatever occurs is accepted uncompromisingly. For many the status quo is far more acceptable than taking the supposed risks of change.

You can’t change anything that has gone by, but living life to its full extent and purposes is truly a joy to carry with you forever. The things that really matter must be clearly identified, you do the have an influence upon determining them.

Each of us are creators with the potential to achieve even the wildest dreams if the necessary effort is simply put into achieving or obtaining the things desired. Consider the directions to take to begin the journey back to your true life path.

The purpose and meaning of your life are to give purpose and meaning to life; to find out not only who you are but also who you have the potential to be, then pursue that goal. Open your mind to the infinite possibilities that do exist for you. Born through your dreams, then crystallized into form by your desires, given impetus by your expectations, then made real through your beliefs.

Life is made up of chances to make choices, decisions what you wish to do; the accumulated result of those choices is what is called your life.

The purpose and meaning of your life is to give purpose and meaning to life; to find out not only who you are but also who you have potential to be, then pursue that goal. Open your mind to the infinite possibilities that do exist for you. Born through your dreams, then crystallised into form by your desires, given impetus by your expectations, then made real though your beliefs. Life is made up of chances to make choices, decisions what we wish to do; the accumulated result of those choices is what we call our life.

Genre: Inspirational Self Improvement



The Laws Of Creation: Create The Life That Your
Truly Desire by Steven Redhead

Are you living the life that you always imagined, the life that you really desire? Can you realize your dreams and desires, or are they gradually slipping away from you?

You are the architect of your own life; so use your willpower to make those choices that will control your destiny, create your life path, your fortune. Start to live by taking back control of your life now.

‘The Laws of Attraction taught how to attract what you want. ‘The Laws of Creation’ shows you what the greatest inventors throughout history knew and practiced, they created. You are the creator of your own perceived reality, so don’t be a creation of circumstances, take full control of your destiny.

The rule is simple, take good care of the future or fear it; for if you don’t plan the present and the future to achieve your life desires, your bliss, then fate will ensure anything can and will happen. Fate has a terrible habit of filling in gaps in reality with anything that may come along, life then becomes an unstable game of chance, perhaps taking you far from the original intended life path. Decide then plan for what you want from life, then work towards putting energy into achieving these life goals, then more than likely what you aim for will become yours, what you most desire and need will become your reality.

Life has the meaning that you give it, through capturing then using the Power of Creation to create a life really worth living.

Genre: Inspirational Self Improvement



Creating Your Reality: Start Living By Taking Back
Control Of Your Life by Steven Redhead

Life is the most wondrous journey, yet many have lost their way by not managing their life well. Creating Your Reality offers directions on how to return to your true life path, to finding your bliss, living a life that you truly deserve. Create a life of joy, contentment, happiness, peace, wealth, health; living your dream, creating the things you desires; gaining the knowledge of what life is really about. The book gives insight into the secrets of The Laws of Attraction; that you are indeed the architect of your own life; that by harness the power of creation within you can make the life that you truly desire. Creating Your Reality is a handy reference, intended to be a guide through life, through the journey of discovery to find out your true self.

Obtain ideas that will enable you to gain insight into how to deal with what may arise; then progress to start living the reality you truly desire and deserve; live life as it was originally intended to be. This is what life is really all about, giving your own meaning to life so that you can live a life of contented bliss. Make the changes to ensure your life is what you desire and how only you intend it to be. Learn to live and create your own reality rather than living that of others.

“Life was never meant to be difficult, it was meant to be wondrous adventure, we trade that ideal for whatever we have because of our complacency, or whenever we accept whatever comes our way,” shares the author. “We can set ourselves free by removing or eliminating anything that is undesirable in our life, no matter what or how high the cost”.

Backed with personal insights and well-research studies, Creating Your Reality will inspire and motivate readers as it offers thoughts to overcome life’s issues, allowing one to live the life imagined by creating what is needed to live the life that is truly deserved.

Genre: Inspirational Self Improvement



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Steven Redhead has over 35 years of experience writing motivational spiritually based philosophy, that is intended to inspire people into asking themselves the questions that will point them towards what they are searching for. His work is intended to bringing the many possibilities available to you to life, by making you aware of the options available for creating the life you desire.

Born in the U.K., Steven is a published songwriter, member of the British Poetry Society; having motivational articles published both in Japanese and international spiritual magazines and on independent websites. His inspirational quotations are featured on 39 independent motivational websites.

His inspiring You Tube channel, which is based around Steven’s philosophy, has a large fan based following. He has spent 32 years in Asia, especially Tokyo, assisting large international businesses in Japan, Thailand, Singapore, China, Hong Kong, Taiwan as well as Brazil to succeed then prosper. Currently he has been living at Malaga, in southern Spain.

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Author Else Byskov (Denmark-Spain)

Else Byskov-FixedElse Byskov is an international authority on the groundbreaking work of Martinus (1890-1981), the Danish philosopher, visionary and mystic. Before she came across the Martinus material (comprising over 9000 pages), Else was a convinced atheist for many years, so it came as quite a surprise to her when she became the author of a series of spiritual books. During a period of intense soul-searching and seeking more meaningful answers to life’s big questions, an astonishing dash of universal wisdom led Else to a book about the Danish mystic – it literally fell into her hands. She was so enthralled by what she found, and the incredibly logical answers that she had never been able to find anywhere about life, death, and the mystery of both, that she had to tell people about it. Her passion was so intense that she wrote her first book, ‘Death Is An Illusion’, (a general introduction to Martinus´ fantastic world picture), in order to bring the incredible Martinus wisdom to a wider audience.

Else has written 4 more books covering the profound aspects of Martinus’ world view: ‘The Art of Attraction’ (about the law of attraction, including totally unknown aspects of the law), ‘The Undiscovered Country’ (presenting all the evidence for life after death), ‘The Beginning Is Near’ (previously called ‘Ten Great Ways to Understand the World’) (a short introduction to the Martinus material in 10 easy steps) and ´The Downfall of Marriage – The Great Transformation of our Marital and Sexual Relations´ (an explanation of why our divorce rates are soaring and why same-sex relationships are on the rise).

Else Byskov is Danish, has two university degrees in Spanish and English philology and she writes mostly in English, so that Martinus’ work can reach a wider audience. Four of her books have also been published in Danish (‘Loven for tiltrækning’, ‘Ti nye måder at se verden på’, ‘Døden er en Illusion’, ‘Ægteskabets nedtur’), one in German (‘Der Tod ist eine Illusion’) and the Spanish version of ‘Death Is an Illusion’ entitled ‘La muerte es una ilusión’ was published in 2011.

In addition to this, Else, a lover of hiking and the outdoors, has also written three highly successful hiking books: ‘Fod på Andalusien’ , ‘Fod på Andalusien 2’ og Fod på Andalusien 3. They have been published in Danish, and one has been published in English: ‘On Foot in Andalucía’. This book is an Amazon bestseller and has also been published in German (‘Zu Fuss in Andalusien’).

Today she is no longer an atheist, is vegetarian and is fully convinced that there is no death: death is an illusion. All her books present the logical basis for this claim. Else lives in southern Spain with her husband.

Featured Book: The Downfall of Marriage by Else Byskov

The-Downfall-of-Marriage-by-Else-ByskovDo you have marital problems?

Do you find it difficult to live in harmony in marriage?

Have you never married?

Do you think there is something wrong with you for being single or divorced?

If your answer is yes, then this book is for you. It reveals the real reason for our relationship problems.

There is nothing wrong with you.

The reason is an organic / sexual / mental / emotional change that is happening to all human beings as we evolve. Today we are simply not as suitable for marriage as we were in the past.

It is time we realize that our sexual pole transformation is recreating us to becoming whole, independent and freedom seeking individuals with a corresponding lesser ability to live in relationships.

This book explains the reason for our degenerating ability to live in marriage. It is a helping hand to all those who are confused, insecure and depressed about why their marriages are not working. The book is based on Martinus´ clear, logical and intelligent analysis of the transformation of our sexual poles on our way to becoming real, all-loving human beings.

This book also reveals the real reason for the existence of homosexuality. The real reason for the growth of same-sex relationships has been a mystery until now. This book is a revelation for anyone who is struggling to understand why they are gay.

It is all explained logically in The Downfall of Marriage.

Learn why the present state of the world is a result of our unfinished state as emerging humans.

Get an intimate look at the bigger picture. It is both mind-blowing and positive.

With The Downfall of Marriage we are on the leading edge of thought. After reading this book, you will never look at relationships or sexuality in the same way again.

Book Review: I find it interesting that Author Else Byskov was born in Denmark and it is there where she became fascinated with the visionary and mystic work of Martinus. It is her mission to bring the ideas of Martinus to her readers and I have to give her 5 stars for her knowledge, research and passion. Else writes, “Martinus was born in Sindal in the North of Jutland in August 1890. His mother was unmarried and the boy, born to a single parent, was baptized Martinus Thomsen. He grew up at the smallholding of Moskildvad (1) with his uncle and aunt, as his mother could not have him living with her. He grew up in very modest circumstances and spent much of his childhood herding cows and helping out at surrounding farms. He had a very modest schooling, and since the family could not afford to let him study, he was apprenticed as a dairyman at an early age.”

This book contains 13 well written chapters with titles geared for mature audiences: The divorce culture of today, Why Martinus?,The transformation of the sexual poles, The one-poled being, What is sexuality?, On the way to becoming double-poled, The growth of universal love, Homo- or pansexuality, Sexual derailments, The double-poled human being, The master plan, Notes, and Bibliography.

The author writes with intelligence and passion as she warns, “This book should not be read by people in love, newlyweds or happily married couples. It has not been written for them. This book has been written for those who are unhappy in their relationships, the divorced, the involuntary singles, those who have several broken relationships behind them, and for those who cannot figure out how to live together as a couple. It has especially been written for the homosexuals who will find a logical explanation to their sexual structure and special preferences in this book – an enlightening explanation that they will not find anywhere else. All open-minded people are invited to read this book, especially those who have realized that we still do not know the whole truth about life, death and our own evolution.”

Opps, I have been happily married for forty-two years and yet I found the book’s prospective interesting because I have an open mind. However, I personally feel that the success of marriage is as simple as genuine love, respect and a common sense approach to give and take.

I always quote a passage of each book that I read so you can judge for yourself.

“The real human being. Many people would probably argue that we are real human beings today and will protest against being called unfinished human beings, so let’s just look at what, according to Martinus, it means to be a ´real´ human being. A real human being is somebody who is filled with universal love for all other beings, be it humans, animals or plants. It is a being whose selfishness is dead and who cannot cheat, lie, brag, steal, deceive, hate, injure, maim, kill and feel envy or jealousy. S/he does not want to have goods or gold but lives humbly and only wants to be a source of joy and assistance for others. S/he lives to serve his or her neighbour. A real human being does not want to shine and impress, s/he does not want to be admired, worshipped and made much of, but only wants to live in quiet obscurity and do the best for her or his fellow beings. A real human being does not participate in the killing of animals and therefore lives exclusively on a vegetarian or vegan diet (8).

In stark contrast to the real human being, we find the one-poled predator. The predator lives exclusively to please itself and is basically selfish in everything it does. As an offshoot of the animal selfishness, we find, when the animal has evolved in the human direction and has a human body, the desire to have power over others and to brag, boast, steal, shine, lie, decorate himself with borrowed feathers, deceive, hurt, maim and kill. These ´offshoots´ from the animal selfishness extend their ramifications far into the human kingdom. We can say that to the extent that we are still able to do any of those things, to the same extent do we have an animal mentality. It is only when we have outlived the need to exercise the aforementioned ´activities´ that we can rightly call ourselves real human beings.

Today there are probably not very many people who can say that they are completely free from having one or more of the above tendencies, and in this way it becomes clear that we are not quite finished, real human beings yet.

Now, there is probably someone who would like to know how the process from animal to human takes place. How do we become real human beings, not only physically but mentally and emotionally? How do we throw off our animal skin and become finished, all-loving human beings?”

I encourage you to read The Downfall of Marriage by Else Byskov as it is a perspective that you probably haven’t been exposed to. I (Theodocia McLean) endorse this book in the genre of religion, spirituality, personal growth and mysticism. This author has books written in English, Danish, German and Spanish. Her English titles are ‘Death Is An Illusion’, The Undiscovered Country-A Non-Religious Look At Life after Death’, ‘The Art of Attraction’ ‘The Beginning Is Near’, ‘The Downfall of Marriage-The Great Transformation of Our Sexual and Marital Relations’ and ‘On Foot on Andalucía -40 hiking excursions in Southern Spain’. I purchased and reviewed this book from a Kindle format on March 5, 2017.

Genre: Religion & Spirituality, Religion (Non-Fiction)

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